Learning A Life Lesson the Hard Way!

               Pasting along some good advice that I have learned in the past month and hope it helps another out there  from making the same mistake.  I needed a lesson in life and had to learn it the hard way it seems!  I learned this:.... that we are all individuals and have the right to choose how we will live our lives.  Its a God given right called ( free agency.)  On a more serious note (as long as it doesn't infringe on another.)  It may not be how we would choose to live our life but still it is there right.....we have been given this gift to choose!   It doesn't matter that we may not like the way someone else does something but it is their right to choose....sometimes this idea gets all of us in trouble including myself.   It possibly may mean that I have to turn my head....we cannot take away another persons free agency .... its God Given  and I am sure we all want it for ourselves as well!
             Over the last few wks. I have learned a life lesson and its not just about not letting words fly out of my mouth but I also need to control my thoughts!!!  You may ask how can thoughts get you in trouble? Thoughts lead to action/ plain and simple!
 At times I feel we all speak without thinking and the words fly out...if we fail to guard our thoughts they often will lead us to action which can lead to other things. I have more than once put  my foot in my mouth because of  overthinking  a situation and then it comes back to bite me!
  I need to learn to stop overthinking and just let it go!!  I need a new perspective on life and the situations that will come up as sometimes they do....perhaps at such times I need to just go take a nap.... Yeah, probably a nap would do good!!   One thing I have learned and learned the hard way is we can control our own lives to a point and how things are with us to some degree /but we cannot control how other people choose to live their lives!
Its not easy ....lots of times we feel our way is best.  It can be a hard lesson for anyone who feels they know how to fix things or knows a better way!  It doesn't work like that guys....we all like choosing no matter good or bad!  When we see where we think things can be made better we have to be careful and not  infringe upon the rights of others to choose.