Saturday, January 12, 2013

Marriage


 

 

 Can a Marriage last for an eternity?  Our Father in Heaven thinks so.

Most people today think of a marriage made in heaven as a rare occurrence in which both parties are deeply in love and highly compatible. We would all like to think that all  marriages are made in heaven. When a man and woman enters marraige , they think its forever until a disagreement comes up and they can't or won't give in and come together on how to solve it.    In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints couples are married in Holy Temples and are expected to work through disagreement and those everyday situations that can tear a marriage apart.  they covenant (or promise) they will stay together forever—on earth and in heaven after they die, if they are faithful to each other and their promises to the Lord. A temple marriage doesn’t include phrases like, "Till death do you part" or "So long as you both shall live." If we keep our promises, our children also become part of this heavenly promise—sealed to us forever.
In todays world keeping families together  is not always an easy accompliment. Couples go into a marriage expectations high , then trials set in and they give up and move on.  Sad.    When married in the temple they think about the journey , are told about the journey and give it a good try.  Does it always work {no} but for the most part those in temple marriages try harder , the committment is stronger. Yes any marriage can survive the storms of life, but when we covenent to give it that extra effort , it helps in that we rethink and forcus on the good. 


The Family is Central to God's Plan

It's no stretch to say that a person has a serious advantage in life if they come from a loving, supportive home. Many people still succeed though they come from less-than-ideal family situations, but having our basic needs met, knowing that our parents love us and learning life lessons at home make all the challenges of day-to-day living that much easier to face. Likely, as an adult you want a happy home for your family.
This is no coincidence. God organizes us into families so that we can grow up in happiness and safety, and so that we can learn to love others selflessly—the key to true joy. Within the family is the best place to learn to love others the way Heavenly Father loves each one of us.
God's Church exists to help families gain eternal blessings. We believe the greatest blessing He gives us is the ability to return to live with Him in heaven with our families. We follow our Heavenly Father's will because that is how we earn this blessing.

A GREAT LEADER

Saturday, May 15, 2010


the title of liberty

"i am concerned for the security of our great nation; not so much because of any threat from without, but because of the insidious forces working from within."

- general douglas macarthur

the title of this blog has reference to the ancient people of america who had separated into larger groupings of people - namely the nephites who were a free people, generally loved and followed God and who valued the rights of their families, communities and nations. opposed to them were was a larger nation, named the lamanites, who generally were a people who hated the nephites, were led by wicked kings, loved war and were constantly being "riled up" to fight.

one of the greatest problems faced by the nephites was the trouble caused by disaffected people, hungry for power, who joined with the lamanites, convinced them of some terrible wrong that had been committed against them some time over the past centuries, and then agitated them to the point of coming out in war.

it was in this environment that a great military leader, captain moroni, was given command of the troops and went about securing the frontier land and cities against a constantly encroaching lamanite army. a free people with an elected ruler, funded the troops, guaranteed the mission and sent replacements and supplies. for a time.

at one point all of the support from the main city began to dry up. the troops were deployed valiantly fighting for their lives when, unbeknownst to them, a coup had taken place and wealthy, ruling class had displaced the judges and established a king over them. because the they weren't loyal to the judges - who were loyal to the troops, they ceased supporting the brave men who were sacrificing their lives to guarantee the freedoms of those "back at home" far from harm's way. it even got to the point where these "king men" began to negotiate with the enemy so that they could ally themselves to complete their power grab at the expense of the loyal "free men" soldiers.

it is an amazing and true story of the great nations that inhabited the americas several thousand years ago, pre-dated the mayan, inca and aztec nations.  You can read this story in the Book of Mormon.  You will find it most amazing!!
the parallels with what is happening today are daunting. when you think about the past administration who bravely fought to fund the troops overseas fighting an enemy out for nothing but the destruction of america's freedoms. a contentious opposition looking for any way to stop the funding of the troops, or to break the mission - despite the cost. looking for a new way of governing and decrying, mocking and abusing the very things that the people and soldiers were fighting for.

in comes a newly elected president whose first statements led one to believe that he would stop the funding of the wars, began open dialogue with dangerous states, continue the push to destroy the framework of our nation and the freedoms it protects. it is an insightful look at past histories replaying themselves anew.

we should learn from them. we certainly do not advocate a return of the fighting leadership to come back and "clean house" as happened with the nephites. rather, we should stand up for and work within the political process to replace bad leaders with good. we should look for our own "captain moroni's" - men and women of strength and character and elect them to office to turn the country back to its great roots.