America beauty and fashion industry is a hundred billion $$ a year business in the U. S. with money from advertisers and marketers whom job is to make people feel "NOT RIGHT" about how they look unless they buy the consumer goods. You will need earplugs and a blindfold to miss it.! This money making scheme is everywhere. Who cares if this goal is unrealistic and unattainable if 199,999 women are buying into it! that is just what the companies , spas , and surgeons are hoping for. There sign are out there, Want to look Great? Botox , lasers, hyaluronic acid , meso therapy, mini -tucks, tummy tucks, nip and tuck, face-lifts, liposuction, breast implants, vein zapping , just waiting to be plucked from the tree of instant beauty for a price$$$$$$$! they 're all out there with the promise of instant happiness by this product or process. Just sign on the dotted line. ---------------
Curture has this call to perfection and its playing havoc with the physical and mental health of our young people and some older ones too. Young kids today are suffering from eating disorders , anorexia , bulimia, compulsive exercising, and they are starting younger every year. How sad that our young girls are buying into this! and the sad thing is its a trap to keep women pouring $$ into the consumers pockets and its working. boys don't tend to have a problem with this as much as girls do , they tend to be more competitive and when they achieve it feeds their self -esteem. If they are not good at one thing just move on to find something they are good at, chess, football , computers and etc. They build from that. they get out of their comfort zone and like a new puppy jumps into life to enjoy it. Girls on the other hand have brought into the culturally programmed myth of perfection and it will play havoc on her self -esteem. Don't buy into it! No one is Perfect, thats the reality of being a human being. Anyone can act and say and do but no one is perfect. Happy women know this!
Curture has this call to perfection and its playing havoc with the physical and mental health of our young people and some older ones too. Young kids today are suffering from eating disorders , anorexia , bulimia, compulsive exercising, and they are starting younger every year. How sad that our young girls are buying into this! and the sad thing is its a trap to keep women pouring $$ into the consumers pockets and its working. boys don't tend to have a problem with this as much as girls do , they tend to be more competitive and when they achieve it feeds their self -esteem. If they are not good at one thing just move on to find something they are good at, chess, football , computers and etc. They build from that. they get out of their comfort zone and like a new puppy jumps into life to enjoy it. Girls on the other hand have brought into the culturally programmed myth of perfection and it will play havoc on her self -esteem. Don't buy into it! No one is Perfect, thats the reality of being a human being. Anyone can act and say and do but no one is perfect. Happy women know this!
Here is the list of what Happy Women know:
Happy women know they can have a meaningful life regardless of circumstances
Happy women know that good enough is good enough
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THEY HAVE THINGS THEY CAN LOVE ABOUT THEMSELVES THROUGHOUT THEIR LIFE CYCLE.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THEIR WORTH IS NOT DETERMINED BY WHAT THEY HAVE OR DON'T HAVE OR HOW THEY LOOK
Happy women know that good enough is good enough
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THEY HAVE THINGS THEY CAN LOVE ABOUT THEMSELVES THROUGHOUT THEIR LIFE CYCLE.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THEIR WORTH IS NOT DETERMINED BY WHAT THEY HAVE OR DON'T HAVE OR HOW THEY LOOK
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT ADMITTING A PROBLEM EXISTS IS THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS CHANGING IT.
HAPPY WOMEN DON'T PLAY THE COMPARISON GAME CAUSE THEIR WILL ALWAYS BE OTHERS THAT WILL HAVE MORE OR LESS THAN YOU
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW POSSESSIONS ARE NEVER ENOUGH TO DELIVER HAPPINESS.
{LOOK AROUND}
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THEY CAN BE RICH IF THEY FORCUS ON WHAT THEY HAVE/ NOT ON WHAT THEY WANT.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW IF YOU WANT TO TAKE CARE OF OTHERS , YOU MUST FIRT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW, THAT TODAY IS ALL WE CAN BE SURE OF SO MAKE THE MOST OF IT. [ I TRY]
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO SAY NO TO OTHERS AND YES TO OURSELF.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT DOWNTIME IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR WELL-BEING. [GARAGE SALE HERE I COME]
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW OUR LIVES BELONG TO US.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW WE CAN'T ALWAYS CONTROL OUR DESTINY BUT WE CAN PARTICIPATE IN IT.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT FORGIVING LETS US OFF THE HOOK.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW AND RECOGNIZE LESSONS LEARNED/ WE ARE ALL IN DIFFERENT STAGES OF OUR LIFE , KNOW WE WILL MAKE MISTAKES.
HAPPY WOMEN ARE NEVER ALONE BECAUSE THEY DON'T ABANDON THEMSELVES.[LOVE THIS]
HAPPY WOMEN NEVER SEE A SITUATION AS PERMANENT , THEY DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY.
HAPPY WOMEN TAKE ACTION IN SPITE OF FEAR
HAPPY WOMEN TRY TO RESPOND WELL WHEN TROUBLE STRIKES
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT WITH EACH PHASE OF LIFE THEY GIVE UP SOMETHING AND THEY GET SOMETHIING NEW IN RETURN
HAPPY WOMEN DON'T PLAY THE COMPARISON GAME CAUSE THEIR WILL ALWAYS BE OTHERS THAT WILL HAVE MORE OR LESS THAN YOU
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW POSSESSIONS ARE NEVER ENOUGH TO DELIVER HAPPINESS.
{LOOK AROUND}
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THEY CAN BE RICH IF THEY FORCUS ON WHAT THEY HAVE/ NOT ON WHAT THEY WANT.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW IF YOU WANT TO TAKE CARE OF OTHERS , YOU MUST FIRT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW, THAT TODAY IS ALL WE CAN BE SURE OF SO MAKE THE MOST OF IT. [ I TRY]
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO SAY NO TO OTHERS AND YES TO OURSELF.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT DOWNTIME IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR WELL-BEING. [GARAGE SALE HERE I COME]
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW OUR LIVES BELONG TO US.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW WE CAN'T ALWAYS CONTROL OUR DESTINY BUT WE CAN PARTICIPATE IN IT.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT FORGIVING LETS US OFF THE HOOK.
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW AND RECOGNIZE LESSONS LEARNED/ WE ARE ALL IN DIFFERENT STAGES OF OUR LIFE , KNOW WE WILL MAKE MISTAKES.
HAPPY WOMEN ARE NEVER ALONE BECAUSE THEY DON'T ABANDON THEMSELVES.[LOVE THIS]
HAPPY WOMEN NEVER SEE A SITUATION AS PERMANENT , THEY DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY.
HAPPY WOMEN TAKE ACTION IN SPITE OF FEAR
HAPPY WOMEN TRY TO RESPOND WELL WHEN TROUBLE STRIKES
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT WITH EACH PHASE OF LIFE THEY GIVE UP SOMETHING AND THEY GET SOMETHIING NEW IN RETURN
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT GRIEF IS NOT A TRAP, YOU CAN TRANSCEND FROM IT
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR OWN HAPPINESS .
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT NO ONE CAN BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT TO HAVE THE RIGHT ATTITUDE MAKES FOR A BETTER LIFE .
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR OWN HAPPINESS .
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT NO ONE CAN BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME
HAPPY WOMEN KNOW THAT TO HAVE THE RIGHT ATTITUDE MAKES FOR A BETTER LIFE .
" HAPPINESS" IS A GIFT YOU HAVE TO GIVE TO YOURSELF DAILY!
LOOK AROUND, MARRIAGES BREAKING UP,
FRIENDSHIPS BREAKING UP, RELATIONSHIPS BREAKING UP, FAMILIES BREAKING UP, ALL BECAUSE THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE OR SOMETHING TO
MAKE THEM HAPPY! IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT.
WE MAKE OUR OWN HAPPINESS!!
I'M OUT THE DOOR NOW,HAPPINESS HERE I COME!
MAMA
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