Thursday, August 22, 2024

My One Wish.....

 My one great wish is that I wish my parents could have taken care of my teeth.  They were so so poor!😒 The bottom ones are so so  bad and I am trying to find a dentist that will see me and tell me what I should do. Life can be so hard at times. My life really was a hard one growing up and effects me today....the one  best part of my life has been that I have a great husband that I love so much and he has been a blessing in my life thank goodness !  Its the things I have had to deal with in my younger childhood that tends to have effected me a lot  today.   I try hard to keep my chin up most the time but lots of  times its not easy and I get to feeling sorry for myself.  I will close on a good note by saying appreciate all that is good in your life!  And don't forget to be thankful for those things you take for granted,  for that beautiful smile you have!

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Tuesday, August 20, 2024

Another Day of Hanging out at Home....

                                         Ho Hum......Another Day You Say

Yes and usually I pick up my keys around one o'clock and head out the door just because.

But then there are other days I love hanging out at home. I love my home!

Routines, schedules,  kids issues, meals , housework , yard work, the good the bad and yes sometimes the ugly.  With this blog I want my kids to know that the everyday things that seem boring are sometimes actually kind of fun and nice. When I document in my blog which I love to do I try to capture the everyday simple  pleasures of my life,  In my blog I sometimes tell about my not so perfect day.  Sure hope my kids enjoy my blog and find it fun to read one day. So I say , try not to focus on the not so fun everyday events that happen and think more on  life's little routines and the simple little joys of the things that  make up our days. 

I kind of like the everyday routine alot and especially if keep busy. One day I will miss all of these everyday things I do right now.. Why? Because these everyday little things have made up my life. And most of the stuff  I actually enjoy doing.  For one thing you just get to be yourself when your home, you don't have to worry about looking so perfect or what other people think or how you fit in.  Love that you don't have to get dressed up .....

Just being home is so cozy and comfortable. I love it!!

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Saturday, August 17, 2024

DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF IN THE FAMILY

 FOUND THIS ARTICLE AND HERE IS SOME GOOD ADVICE.......

 WE ALL HAVE OUR QUIRKS.....THEY CAN ANNOY  US BUT 

HERE IS SOME ADVICE.

1. CHOOSE TO FIND INNOCENCE AND SEE HUMOR IN FAMILY MEMBERS

2. TRY NOT TO SPEAK WITH A HARSH TONE

3. SPEAK WITH KINDNESS

4. TRY TO UNDERSTAND AND RECONIZE NOT ALL HAVE AN EYE FOR SAME THING

5. WHEN LITTLE THINGS DON'T GET TO YOU, YOUR FAMILY WILL SEEM MORE OF A SOURCE OF JOY TO  YOU

6, PUT THINGS INTO PERSPECTIVE....MOST THINGS ARE NOT LIFE  OR DEATH EMERGENCIES

7. KEEP GOOD COMPANY....SOME THINGS  CAN RUB OFF ON  YOU..... LIFE IS SHORT!! SO DON'T WASTE TIME WITH THE WRONG PEOPLE

8. YOUR HOME LIFE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING WHILE YOU ARE HERE ON EARTH  SO RETHINK 

" WHO  DO I WANT TO SPEND THE REMAINER OF MY TIME WITH HERE ON THIS EARTH AND HOW DO I  ADD JOY TO MY LIFE."

SPEND TIME WITH  FAMILY "  AND DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF!!!


Friday, August 16, 2024

Essential pieces

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 I am a puzzle person. Love it and love seeing the finish project

In our families we are all somewhat like a puzzle piece.

 We are different from each other for sure.

 Yet in this life we can each fit together like a puzzle piece.

But isn't it wonderful thing that we're all different? Ment to be!

Each of us in our family has strengths and skills different from each other. 

Like a puzzle we link our individual strengths  and differences together. 

Each  person in our family can fit together so beautifully just like a piece of puzzle.

I know as we work at it,  we end up being this beautiful finished puzzle. 

As said, I love a good puzzle and seeing the end project makes me so happy!

Together as we put all our pieces together......what we end  up with is a  beautiful puzzle of family!

 

 

Grandpa, Grandma,Mom, Dad, plus children /would love picture of my family here.

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Shine

 I know lots of people that are truly beautiful people with great personalities and they don't feel they need to pretend to be anyone else.  They shine!  Wish I could say I was one of them😊.

I feel personal problems do take a toll on alot people.  All these beautiful people out there that shine know who they are and they are those that are comfortable in their own skin and with who they are. Even if any fllaws they are not afraid to show their real self to the world!!  I like that! .Today its sad to say but  many people put themself out there even on social media and some pretend to be someone they are not and they present a certain version of themself while other people portray their true seft and are satisfied with who they are. In this world of so many people I hope you all shine through in your actions and interactions with others.  I have heard that people who don't pretend are happier and more satisfied with life!  Have to say here that my sister Donna is one of those people , she  makes others happy and never meets a stranger, talks to everyone.  This makes her happy and other people happy too! I have found that when life is hard or we are going through something hard we do sometimes pretend to get through it .

 I have to say here that I have done it myself.   But honestly I know that being yourself  leads to greater happiness and better relationships with others. 

                          So go out and don't pretend to be what your not but be yourself !!!  

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 "YOU WILL SHINE"

 

 

 

 

                                


Friday, August 9, 2024

The King and His Hawk

 

red-tailed hawk

Genghis Khan was a great king and warrior.

He led his army into China and Persia, and he conquered many lands. In every country, men told about his daring deeds; and they said that since Alexander the Great there had been no king like him.

One morning when he was home from the wars, he rode out into the woods to have a day's sport. Many of his friends were with him. They rode out gayly, carrying their bows and arrows. Behind them came the servants with the hounds.

It was a merry hunting party. The woods rang with their shouts and laughter. They expected to carry much game home in the evening.

On the king's wrist sat his favorite hawk; for in those days hawks were trained to hunt. At a word from their masters they would fly high up into the air, and look around for prey. If they chanced to see a deer or a rabbit, they would swoop down upon it swift as any arrow.

All day long Genghis Khan and his huntsmen rode through the woods. But they did not find as much game as they expected.

Toward evening they started for home. The king had often ridden through the woods, and he knew all the paths. So while the rest of the party took the nearest way, he went by a longer road through a valley between two mountains.

The day had been warm, and the king was very thirsty. His pet hawk had left his wrist and flown away. It would be sure to find its way home.

The king rode slowly along. He had once seen a spring of clear water near this path-way. If he could only find it now! But the hot days of summer had dried up all the mountain brooks.

At last, to his joy, he saw some water trickling down over the edge of a rock. He knew that there was a spring farther up. In the wet season, a swift stream of water always poured down here; but now it came only one drop at a time.

The king leaped from his horse. He took a little silver cup from his hunting bag. He held it so as to catch the slowly falling drops.

It took a long time to fill the cup; and the king was so thirsty that he could hardly wait. At last it was nearly full. He put the cup to his lips, and was about to drink.

All at once there was a whirring sound in the air, and the cup was knocked from his hands. The water was all spilled upon the ground.

The king looked up to see who had done this thing. It was his pet hawk.

The hawk flew back and forth a few times, and then alighted among the rocks by the spring.

The king picked up the cup, and again held it to catch the trickling drops.

This time he did not wait so long. When the cup was half full, he lifted it toward his mouth. But before it had touched his lips, the hawk swooped down again, and knocked it from his hands.

And now the king began to grow angry. He tried again; and for the third time the hawk kept him from drinking.

The king was now very angry indeed.

"How do you dare to act so?" he cried. "If I had you in my hands, I would wring your neck!"

Then he filled the cup again. But before he tried to drink, he drew his sword.

"Now, Sir Hawk," he said, "this is the last time."

He had hardly spoken, before the hawk swooped down and knocked the cup from his hand. But the king was looking for this. With a quick sweep of the sword he struck the bird as it passed.

The next moment the poor hawk lay bleeding and dying at its master's feet.

"That is what you get for your pains," said Genghis Khan.

But when he looked for his cup, he found that it had fallen between two rocks, where he could not reach it.

"At any rate, I will have a drink from that spring," he said to himself.

With that he began to climb the steep bank to the place from which the water trickled. It was hard work, and the higher he climbed, the thirstier he became.

At last he reached the place. There indeed was a pool of water; but what was that lying in the pool, and almost filling it? It was a huge, dead snake of the most poisonous kind.

The king stopped. He forgot his thirst. He thought only of the poor dead bird lying on the ground below him.

"The hawk saved my life!" he cried; "and how did I repay him? He was my best friend, and I have killed him."

He clambered down the bank. He took the bird up gently, and laid it in his hunting bag. Then he mounted his horse and rode swiftly home. He said to himself,--

"I have learned a sad lesson today; and that is, never to do anything in anger."


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On Self-Discipline

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Peter was a very lively little boy. Everyone loved him: his family, his teachers and his friends. But he did have one weakness. Peter could never live in the moment. He had not learnt to enjoy the process of life. When he was in school, he dreamed of outside playing. When he was outside playing, he dreamed of his summer vacation. Peter constantly day dreamed, never taking the time to savor the special moments that filled his days.

One morning, Peter was out walking in a forest near his home. Feeling tired he decided to rest on a patch of grass and eventually dozed off. After only a few minutes of deep sleep, he heard someone calling his name. ‘Peter! Peter!’ came the shrill voice from above. As he slowly opened his eyes, he was startled to see a striking woman standing above him. She must have been over a hundred years old and her snow-white hair dangled well below her shoulders like a matted blanket of wool. In this woman’s wrinkled hands was a magical little ball with a hole in the center and out of the hole dangled a long, golden thread.

‘Peter’, she said, ‘this is the thread of your life. If you pull the thread just a bit, an hour will pass in seconds. If you pull a little harder, whole days will pass in minutes. And if you pull with all your might, months – even years – will pass by in days.’ Peter grew very excited at this discovery. ‘I’d like to have it if I may?’ he asked. The elderly woman quickly reached down and gave the ball with the magic thread to the young boy.

The next day Peter was sitting in the classroom feeling restless and bored. Suddenly, he remembered his new toy. As he pulled a little bit of golden thread, he quickly found himself at home, playing in his garden. Realizing the power of the magic thread, Peter soon grew tired of being a schoolboy and longed to be a teenager, with all the excitement that phase of life would bring. So again he pulled out the ball and pulled hard on the golden thread.

Suddenly he was a teenager with a very pretty young girlfriend named Elise. But Peter still wasn’t content. He had never learnt to enjoy the moment and to explore the simple wonders of every stage of his life. Instead, he dreamed of being an adult. So again he pulled on the thread and many years whizzed by in an instant. Now he found that he had been transformed into a middle-aged adult. Elise was now his wife and Peter was surrounded with a house full of kids. But Peter also noticed something else. His once jet black hair had started to turn grey. And his once youthful mother whom he loved so dearly had grown old and frail. Yet Peter still could not live in the moment. He had never learnt to ‘live in the now.’ So once again, he pulled on the magic thread and waited for the changed to appear.

Peter now found that he was a ninety-year-old man. His thick dark hair had turned white as snow and his beautiful young wife Elise has also grown old and has passed away a few years earlier. His wonderful children had grown up and left home to lead lives of their own. For the first time in his entire life, Peter realized that he had not taken the time to embrace the wonders of living. He had never gone fishing with his kids or taken a moonlight stroll with Elise. He had never planted a garden or read those wonderful books his mother had loved to read. Instead, he had hurried through life, never resting to see that was good along the way.

Peter became very sad at this discovery. He decided to go out to the forest where he used to walk as a boy to clear his head and warm his spirit. As he entered the forest, he noticed that the little saplings of his childhood had grown into mighty oaks. The forest itself had matured into paradise of nature. He lay down on a small patch of grass and fell into a deep slumber. After only a minute, he heard someone calling out to him. ‘Peter! Peter!’ cried the voice. He looked up in astonishment to see that it was none other than the old woman who had given him the ball with the magic golden thread many years earlier.

‘How have you enjoyed my special gift?’ she asked.

Peter was direct in his reply.

‘At first it was fun but now I hate it. My whole life has passed before my eyes without giving me the chance to enjoy it. Sure, there would have been sad times as well as great times but I haven’t had the chance the experience either. I feel empty inside. I have missed the gift of living.’

‘You are very ungrateful,’ said the old woman. ‘Still, I will give you one last wish.’

Peter thought for an instant and then answered hastily. ‘I’d like to go back to being a schoolboy and live my life over again.’ He then returned to his deep sleep.

Again he heard someone calling his name and opened his eyes. ‘Who could it be this time?’ he wondered. When he opened his eyes, he was absolutely delighted to see his mother standing over his bedside. She looked young, healthy and radiant. Peter realized that the strange woman of the forest had indeed granted his wish and he had returned to his former life.

‘Hurry up Peter. You sleep too much. Your dreams will make you late for school if you don’t get up right this minute,’ his mother admonished. needless to say, Peter dashed out of his bed on this morning and began to live the way he had hoped. Peter went on to live a full life, one rich with many delights, joys and triumphs, but it all started when he stopped sacrificing the present for the future and began to live in the moment.

Unfortunately, none of us will ever get this second change to live our life again. Knowing that time flies, we refuse to make the use of it and live in the present. We are so preoccupied with out thought about the future that we turn a blind eye to our present. And when we are finally on the death bed, we regret not doing so many things we could have done in our life.

I don’t know what’s your age, but that doesn’t matter to me. What matters to me is that you are alive, reading my blog at the moment and my message is being conveyed to you. Don’t let time slip out of your hands like the sand. Learn to relish and enjoy the present so that you have some really exciting and interesting stories to share with others and you have no regrets when you would be on your death bed. πŸ™‚